Flexible Boarding: the modern approach meeting parents’ needs
From boarding house pets and paintballing to fantastic facilities and academic rigour, boarding schools have moved with the times to meet the needs of the modern family.

Vinehall School
Curricula to suit the globally mobile family
Many boarding schools around the world choose a US or UK curriculum as their focus, but there are now almost 370 schools with boarding facilities across the world that offer the International Baccalaureate (IB). More than 50 of these are in the UK alone – the IB has become a popular choice with globally mobile families.ACS Cobham, an international day and boarding school in Surrey, and TASIS The American International School in England offer the best of both worlds – a US-based curriculum with the Advanced Placement and the IB Diploma.

Brexit and the effect on boarding schools
Following the UK’s decision to leave the UK, ongoing negotiations have so far failed to clarify the terms of the new relationship and rules surrounding the free movement of people.Therefore, many employers are making contingency plans to support access to the European Union by moving business out of the UK. A survey of 306 companies conducted by the Confederation of British Industry (CBI) in October revealed that 24 per cent required greater certainty surrounding Brexit by January 2018 to prevent them from implementing ‘no-deal’ contingency plans. For 10 per cent of businesses, that deadline has already passed.“Brexit is only 508 days away, but for many businesses their alarm clocks are set even earlier than that,” said Paul Drechsler, CBI president, speaking at the CBI Annual Conference in November. “For 10 per cent of businesses, the alarm has already rung and they’ve begun moving staff or slowing recruitment.Related articles:
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“Without a transitional deal, when EU leaders gather in Brussels for the March 2018 summit, 60 per cent of businesses will have done the same. The clock is ticking.”Nathaniel McCullagh, founder and managing director of independent education company, Simply Learning Tuition, winner of this year’s Relocate Award for Excellence in Employee and Family Support, describes the impact on families who are potentially having to relocate because of Brexit.Mr McCullagh says, “The climate of uncertainty makes this an anxious time for employees and their families, particularly those with children, who are naturally very concerned about schooling amidst all of the other considerations about relocation.”“I believe the Brexit uncertainty is the main reason we are seeing a massive increase in enquiries about UK boarding schools, and many UK-based families who would traditionally have sent their children to a day school are considering boarding as well, so children have continuity of care and education should their parents need to move abroad.“UK boarding schools are already geared up to look after children whose parents are overseas, and they are world-renowned academically and for their pastoral care and proxy parenting.”Schools are also optimistic, with many reporting record numbers of attendance at open days and increasing interest from local families.
Modern boarding: meeting the needs of modern families
John Attewell, head of boarding at Box Hill School, a co-educational day and boarding school in Surrey, sums up the shift in boarding. “Traditionally, boarding existed as a means of accommodating students who were schooled away from home. In that sense, in many ways it just existed to provide meals, a bed and sometimes hot showers. Academic development was paramount and the boarding element was almost inconsequential. What modern boarding seeks to do is to contribute to the social and personal development of each student,” Mr Attewell explains.It is this holistic approach that has gained in popularity, and has seen schools developing state of the art facilities to provide as much for the well-being and interests of children outside of the classroom as within.
The importance of extracurricular activities
Parents are increasingly looking for a holistic education – one that balances academic provision, pastoral care and co-curricular activities in the belief that it better prepares children for managing the challenges involved in living in an increasingly globalised world.Therefore, extracurricular activities are an integral part of a boarding school’s offering and many provide an extensive variety of options. “We have more than 60 extra-curricular clubs throughout the course of the week, superb sporting facilities that are open until 9pm, and the library is open until 9.30pm each night,” says Olivera Raraty, headmistress of Malvern St James Girls’ School (MSJ), a day and boarding school for girls aged three to 18.“Boarders are able to take full advantage of this, and it helps them to find the things that really interest them. Girls can even set up and run their own clubs where none already exist.”Access to school facilities outside of the normal school day is a major perk of boarding. “Boarders at Junior King’s have access to the school’s facilities all of the time,” says the school’s head of boarding, Rob Stonier. “They can use the music school, sports hall, classrooms and ICT suite in the evenings, and our activities programme provides a wealth of different options for pupils to participate in.”Caroline Jordan, headmistress at Headington School, a girls’ day and boarding school in Oxford, believes girls who fully embrace all of the extracurricular options available benefit hugely from boarding.“Boarding allows girls to fully take part in all of the different activities the school offers. We have more than 150 clubs and activities in everything from the Combined Cadet Force to coding. We put on special activities just for the boarders such as creative workshops in-house. We take them rock climbing, to the cinema, shopping, ice skating, on social events with other schools – the list is endless, and we always welcome new ideas from our girls.”The provision of additional help with academic study is also an attraction for many parents. “Boarding offers the advantage of supervised prep sessions, helping to build the work ethos and providing additional help in pupils’ academic work,” says Merchiston Castle’s Ms Gray.Flexi-boarding
Over the past 10 years, boarding schools have endeavoured to respond to the ever-changing needs of the modern family lifestyle. Busy parents have increasingly pushed for a more flexible approach to boarding, one that enables students to switch from traditional boarding patterns to staying the night on a flexible basis.
The importance of pastoral care
Dr Douglas Ota, a child psychologist and author of Safe Passage: how mobility affects people and what international schools should do about it, explains that a move can be beneficial to children, but only if it is handled well.“Mobility across cultures can be one of the richest sources of learning and personal growth that life has to offer. But these benefits only occur when mobility’s massive challenges are managed well,” Dr Ota explains.The days are long gone when a child was just dropped off at the boarding school gate, suitcase in hand. The provision for pastoral care in modern boarding schools is extensive – from housemasters, tutors, mentors and prefects to chaplains and nurses, most schools aim to provide a home-from-home, with the added benefit of experts on hand.
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Schools have learned from experience about what helps new boarders to settle into the unique environment of their school. Most schools will offer a structured induction programme with the focus on making relationships.“For the first two weeks of a new boarder’s time, they have a ‘shadow’. This is a friend who is assigned to them and who is charged with looking after the new pupil, explains a spokesperson for Cottesmore School, a co-educational prep school for children aged three to 13.“In addition to a form tutor, they are also given a pastoral tutor who keeps track of their feelings and emotional state – this tutor will encourage them to speak about how they are feeling.”Feeling listened to is a vital part of children accepting the new situation according to Dr Ota. “The stress of moving unleashes powerful feelings. For a successful mobility experience, these feelings need to come out. Do not underestimate the healing power of simply attending to whatever a child is saying.”Older role models also play an important role says TASIS’ Ms Engel, “Prefects play an instrumental role in helping new students adjust by providing support and encouragement because they too were once new boarders.”There is no doubt that the softer side of boarding has a significant impact on helping students to feel at home in their new environment.“We have a very family orientated boarding offering,” says Elsbeth Rankin, Vinehall School’s marketing manager. “We have various pets – the housemistress has a golden retriever, Woody, and a cat, and the headmaster has two golden retrievers. The boarders often take Woody out for walks.”Single-sex schools will also tailor their pastoral care towards the unique needs of the relevant sex. Merchiston Castle School caters specifically for those of boys. Every boy has a housemaster, a tutor and specific prefects to safeguard their welfare, but the school also recognises the distinctive pastoral needs of boys.“Implicit in the ethos of the school is the awareness that as boys enter and pass through puberty, many important and difficult issues will confront them. An extensive personal, social and health education programme appropriate to each year group is run within the curriculum,” explains Ms Gray.
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As students face an increasingly interconnected world, they need to learn to communicate with people from a wide range of different cultures and traditions.
Looking to the future of boarding
Rob Stonier of Junior King’s, believes the future of modern boarding looks bright. “There will be a greater demand from international pupils for places at UK schools as parents aspire to have their children educated in a UK boarding school.” Mr Stonier also believes flexible arrangements will continue to be popular. Ms Coles from Vinehall School agrees, “Wrap-around care for busy, working parents, such as early drop off for breakfast and optional stays at the weekend will increase, as will further boarding options.”The role of technology, which has changed communication between parents, teachers and children at boarding schools beyond recognition, will also have crucial part to play.“Modern boarding is all about communication,” says a spokesperson for Cottesmore School. “We are always trying to find better and easier ways to communicate with parents, who may well be in London or abroad. Technology is seemingly the answer. We are installing a new parent portal and use several forms of social media and modern smart phone apps to communicate with parents.”Perhaps the final words should go to Steve Gardner, head of lower school at King Edward’s Witley, as he describes a typical Wednesday evening during term time, “It’s 8pm, my boarders are with my wife undertaking a musical theatre rehearsal which involves blasting out top West End hits in our new music room.“An hour previously and they were all studiously working on their prep. And let’s not forget the 14 Under 13 footballers who returned from a rival school with 12 goals. All of the boarders will soon help Matron make toasties for the house, followed by social time before completing 10 minutes of house jobs and then heading off to bed.”“Parents have become acutely aware that modern boarding is a nurturing and family based environment, and they are embracing it with open arms.”

